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The Impact of Mindfulness on Personal Empowerment

mindset Dec 16, 2024
Nicole Hollar - Coach | Speaker | Author
The Impact of Mindfulness on Personal Empowerment
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Mindfulness. It’s a buzzword and at its core it’s pretty simple: being fully present in the moment without judgment. It’s about noticing your thoughts, feelings, and surroundings without trying to change them, push them away, or label them as good or bad.


It sounds easy enough, but for most of us, it’s not. Our minds are constantly running, jumping between what happened yesterday and what might happen tomorrow. We’re distracted, multitasking, or reacting on autopilot. Mindfulness helps you hit pause, tune in, and respond with more awareness. And when you practice that regularly, it changes how you handle stress, make decisions, and connect with yourself.

 

Why Mindfulness Works

When you’re mindful, you’re not just going through the motions. You’re paying attention to what’s actually happening—how you feel, what you’re thinking, and what you need. It’s the foundation of my coaching practice: being aware of and accountable to ourselves. Awareness helps you step back from impulsive reactions and make choices that align with who you want to be.


It’s not about clearing your mind or forcing yourself to think positively. It’s about noticing where your mind is and gently bringing yourself back to the present. The more you practice, the easier it gets.


A 2013 meta-analysis by Bassam Khoury and colleagues reviewed 209 studies involving over 12,000 participants. Here’s what they found:


• Mindfulness practices led to a 30% reduction in anxiety symptoms and a 20% reduction in depressive symptoms.
• Participants reported better emotional regulation, improved decision-making, and increased self-awareness.
• The benefits were consistent across different ages, genders, and cultural backgrounds.
In short, mindfulness helps people feel better, think more clearly, and respond to life’s challenges with more balance.

 

How to Start Practicing Mindfulness

You don’t need hours of free time or a perfectly quiet space to get started. Here are two simple ways to incorporate mindfulness into your day:


1. Mindful Breathing
This is the easiest place to start. Take two minutes to sit quietly and focus on your breath. Breathe in slowly through your nose, let it out through your mouth, and pay attention to the rise and fall of your chest. If your mind wanders (it will), that’s okay. Just notice it and bring your attention back to your breath.


2. Mindful Eating
Most of us eat on autopilot—grabbing a snack while scrolling through our phones or rushing through lunch without tasting it. Try slowing down. Pick one meal or snack and take your time with it. Finish each kernel of popcorn then move onto the next one rather than tossing in a handful. Notice the textures, the flavors, the smell. Chew slowly. The goal is to be fully present while you eat instead of being distracted or rushed.

Both of these practices take just a few minutes, but they help you reconnect to yourself and the present moment.

 

Mindfulness isn’t about escaping your thoughts or avoiding stress—it’s about building awareness so you can handle whatever life throws your way. Over time, that awareness leads to better emotional regulation, more intentional choices, and a stronger sense of control.


You don’t need to be perfect at it, and you don’t need to sit cross-legged for hours a day. Start small. A few mindful moments here and there can make a big difference in how you show up for yourself and the people around you.


So the next time you feel your mind racing, take a breath. Pause. Notice what’s happening in the moment. That’s mindfulness.

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